相依为命
- Literal
- leaning on each other to live
- Figurative
- To depend on each other to get by because there is no one else; the stress falls on having only each other rather than on how they care for each other.
Where does 相依为命 come from?
It comes from the Chen Qing Biao, the memorial Li Mi addressed to Emperor Wu of Jin on being summoned to office. Li Mi had lost his father as a baby, and his mother remarried when he was small, so he was raised by his grandmother. In the text he asks to postpone the appointment to care for her in her old age, explaining that grandmother and grandson, the two of them alone, had each been the other's lifeline (更相为命). The idiom grew out of that line, with 相依 in place of 更相. Today it is used for people who have only each other, very often family, and also for someone living alone with a pet.
Source (出处): 李密《陈情表》
How is 相依为命 used? Two examples
- 父亲去世以后,她和母亲相依为命,日子过得很苦。
After her father died, she and her mother had only each other, and life was very hard.
- 老人的孩子都在国外,他和一条老狗相依为命。
The old man's children all live abroad; he and an old dog have only each other.